I feel like an understanding of the term "race" is definitely needed.
Well I know there are some ppl who don’t believe in race. They say race is a social construct, developed to control. I don’t get what that does, bc even if that was so, race is still used. And you are still classified. You don’t escape your race classification, bc you don’t believe in it. I do believe in race, bc society believes in race. And society’s views affect me.
Now here is how I see myself: My race is black American or African American. My ethnicity is Cuban, black and afro-Brazilian. My nationality is 4th generation American. My culture is black American culture and afro-Brazilian. The farthest back I can trace my blood line, and only on my father’s side, is Bahia, Brazil. I don’t know my family’s origin, but we know it all started in the mother land.
But to keep things very simple I’m black bc my parents are black. My race is black American.
it’s so attractive when a man is knowledgeable and aware of the world around him. i like for a man to care about other people in the world. if he can be compassionate towards complete strangers, then he will most certainly treat me with the utmost respect.
So I had my first sex dream about us. Basically to keep it short, we made love in his office, up against the window, looking out at the city. I woke up in the middle of the night to masturbate. It felt ummm…. Very real. It felt real. Mainly bc it was so realistic. Meaning how it happened COULD happen. So now when I see him in another hr, like I’m going to be feeling some kind of way.